How to Plan an Unplugged Wedding
October 7, 2022
An increasing number of couples are requesting that guests keep phones and cameras out of sight during “unplugged” ceremonies and sometimes receptions, too. Unplugged weddings are becoming the normal for us.
Having an Unplugged Wedding
The most obvious reason to request a device free wedding is so your friends and family can witness your ‘I Do’s’ without distractions—that is why they’re there, after all—and appreciate all the time and planning you put into the details. Keeping your wedding device free can be beneficial because it allows your guests to be more present and engaged in the event.
When and How to Tell Your Guests
Although we have worked with couples who announce their device free day on the wedding website or invitation, you don’t have to give so much advance notice: A simple placard at the ceremony and reception entry points or a polite verbal request from your registrar or vicar works just fine. Guests are usually very respectful of this. A good way is to have some signage at the ceremony asking them to please keep mobile phones off and tucked away during the ceremony, and to let guests know that they will share all the professional pictures with them, so they don’t feel they need to try to capture their own.
What to Say to Guests Who Refuse
If more than a few of your guests decline at your request, then a gentle word from your planner or a venue staff member reminding them of the sanctity of a wedding ceremony and the following reception may encourage them to stow their screens.
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